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"En gravissant l'échelle sociale, la méchanceté porte un masque plus épais"

Erich Fromm
Erich Fromm Psychoanalyst
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As people climb higher in social status, they often become more adept at hiding their true negative traits. Think about it this way: when someone is striving to reach the top, they may do whatever it takes to get there. Once they've made it, they have more to lose, so they get better at concealing any ruthless behavior behind a facade of charm and politeness.

Historically, this idea has been a recurring theme in literature and philosophy. Machiavelli, for instance, hinted at something similar in "The Prince." He suggested that rulers often need to be cunning and deceitful to maintain their power. It’s not a new concept, but it’s one that remains relevant.

Let me paint you a picture with a real-life example. Picture a successful CEO, someone who’s clawed their way to the top of a massive corporation. To the public, they’re the epitome of charisma and kindness. They donate to charity, smile for the cameras, and give inspiring speeches. But behind closed doors, they’re ruthless—cutting down anyone who stands in their way, making harsh decisions that benefit the bottom line but hurt real people. Their viciousness is masked by the thick layer of their public persona.

So, how can you apply this wisdom to your own life? Be cautious as you rise in your career or social circles. It’s easy to get caught up in the allure of success and forget the importance of authenticity and compassion. If you find yourself in a position of power, remember to check in with your values regularly. Don’t let the mask become so thick that you lose touch with who you really are.

Imagine you’re at a party. You’re mingling, making small talk, and you meet someone who seems incredibly charming. They’re well-dressed, articulate, and seem genuinely interested in what you have to say. But then, you overhear a snippet of conversation where they’re talking down to someone else, showing a glimpse of their true colors. It’s jarring, right? That’s the thick mask slipping for just a moment.

This scenario is a good reminder to be discerning about the people you let into your life, especially those who seem to have a lot of influence. Just because someone has a shiny exterior doesn’t mean their intentions are pure. Take the time to get to know people beyond the surface level. Watch how they treat others when they think no one is looking. That’s often when their true nature reveals itself.

In the end, it’s all about balance. Strive for success, but don’t lose your soul in the process. Stay grounded, stay genuine, and keep your eyes open—both for the masks others wear and for the one you might be tempted to don yourself. That’s the real challenge, but it’s also where true integrity lies.
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Behavior Facade Human nature Mask Power Social dynamics Social hierarchy Society Status
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