"شکایت یکی از استراتژیهای مورد علاقه نفس برای تقویت خود است."
— Eckhart Tolle
Simplified Meaning:
When people complain, they are often trying to make themselves feel more important or better than others. By pointing out what is wrong in a situation, they are subtly saying they know better. This makes them feel superior or more significant. For example, imagine you have a coworker who is always complaining about how others do their job. By doing this, they are indirectly saying that they know the best way to work and others don’t. This behavior can make them feel more valuable or essential in their own eyes. However, constantly finding faults and complaining doesn’t improve things. It just boosts their self-importance temporarily. Instead of complaining, focusing on solutions or ways to help can lead to real improvement and personal growth.
