"Family quarrels are bitter things. They don’t go according to any rules. They’re not like aches or wounds; they’re more like splits in the skin that won't heal because there’s not enough material."
Simplified meaning
Arguments within families hurt deeply. Unlike regular disagreements that might follow some rules or guidelines, family fights are often raw and unpredictable. You can think of it like a cut that keeps reopening; it doesn't easily mend because the bond that connects family members tightly makes the pain sharper and the healing harder. Imagine having a fight with a close sibling or parent—it often feels worse than arguing with a friend or stranger because you expect those closest to you to understand and support you. The emotional connection makes the wounds more personal and tougher to forget. For example, if a family business feud happens, it can affect relations for years, affecting more than just the business but eroding trust and love among family members. To handle such conflicts, it’s crucial to communicate openly, show understanding, and work together to mend the relationship, just like carefully tending to a persistent wound until it finally heals.
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Bitterness Conflict Disagreement Emotional pain Family Healing Relationships Scars Wounds
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