"爱不是统治,而是培养"
— Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Simplified Meaning:
When we say that love doesn't overpower or control, but instead helps things grow, it means that real love is gentle and nurturing. Consider a garden: if you plant seeds and take care of them by giving them water, sunlight, and attention, the plants will thrive. In the same way, when you love someone, you support and encourage them to be their best by being kind and understanding. Let’s take an example from history: a good teacher like Anne Sullivan, who helped Helen Keller, didn’t force her to change. Instead, she patiently guided her, helping her learn and grow despite her challenges. In our daily lives, applying this wisdom means being patient and supportive with our friends and family. Rather than telling them what to do, we should offer support and encouragement, helping them become the best versions of themselves. This way, our relationships grow stronger and more fulfilling.