"それが重要だったから痛かった"
— John Green
Simplified Meaning:
When something matters to us, we care about it deeply. Because of this, when we experience a loss or a disappointment related to it, it can cause us pain. Imagine a situation where you studied very hard for an important test, but didn't get the grade you hoped for. The reason it hurts is because you cared so much about doing well. If this wasn’t important to you, it wouldn’t have affected you so deeply. This reaction shows how significant that event was in your life. The pain you feel highlights the value you placed on the outcome. In this way, our emotional responses are directly tied to what we hold dear. Knowing this can help us understand our feelings better. When we feel hurt, we should recognize that it’s a sign of how much we care about something. This awareness can be comforting, helping us process emotions and find ways to move forward.
