"L'anxiété chez les enfants n'est à l'origine rien d'autre qu'une expression du fait qu'ils ressentent la perte de la personne qu'ils aiment."
— Sigmund Freud
Simplified Meaning:
When kids feel anxious, it's often because they miss someone they care about. This anxiety is a sign that they are sad or scared because a special person, like a parent or close friend, is not around. For example, if a child’s mom goes on a trip for a few days, the child might start to feel worried or upset. This is because the child feels the absence and misses the security and comfort usually provided by the mom. This understanding can help parents and caregivers recognize why a child might be feeling anxious. Instead of just telling the child to calm down, they can offer more reassurance, physical affection, or spend extra time with them to help fill the gap. Listening to the child's feelings and explaining when the loved one will return can also reduce the fear and sadness. By recognizing that their anxiety is linked to missing someone, adults can more effectively support and comfort the child.
