"全ての戦いで戦い、勝利することは最高の優れた点ではありません; 最高の優れた点は、戦わずに敵の抵抗を破ることにあります。"
— Sun Tzu
Simplified Meaning:
Winning every fight doesn't mean you're the best; the greatest skill is winning without needing to fight at all. Think about how a good negotiator works. Instead of causing a big argument or conflict, they find a peaceful solution that everyone agrees on. This way, no one gets hurt, and the problem is solved without fighting. For example, imagine two kids wanting the last piece of cake. Instead of pushing and shouting to decide who gets it, they talk and agree to share it. This peaceful solution shows intelligence and maturity, which is better than just one kid winning by force. In your life, when you face a tough situation or disagreement, try to find a solution that avoids conflict. It might mean talking calmly, finding a compromise, or understanding the other person's point of view. This way, you solve the problem smartly and maintain better relationships with others.
