"冷漠和忽视往往比直接的厌恶造成更多的伤害"
— J.K. Rowling
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Simplified Meaning:
When we ignore someone or don't care about them, it can hurt them more than if we disliked them but showed it openly. Imagine being in school and needing help with your studies. If your teacher dislikes you but still gives you feedback, at least you know what they think and can learn from it. But if your teacher just ignores you and doesn't bother to help you at all, it feels worse. You feel like you don't matter. This can make you feel very alone and unimportant. By paying attention and caring about people, even if we don't agree with them, we can make them feel valued and respected. Avoiding people or pretending they don't exist can make their problems worse and create more pain.
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