"It's better to be looked over than overlooked."
Simplified meaning
It's more advantageous to be noticed by others, even if they are critical or judgmental, than to be ignored completely. Think about a job interview. When a company calls you for an interview, they've noticed you and your potential. Even if they have some critical questions or concerns, you still have a chance to show your best qualities and skills. On the other hand, if they overlook you completely and don't call you in at all, you lose the opportunity to prove yourself. In friendships or relationships, having someone pay attention to you, even if they sometimes have negative feedback, means you matter to them. Being ignored means not having the chance to connect or communicate. This idea encourages people to seek attention and take risks, rather than fading into the background and not being recognized at all.
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Attention Confidence Importance Perception Presence Recognition Self-esteem Self-worth Validation Visibility
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