“In this world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it.”
— Oscar Wilde
Simplified Meaning:
Sometimes, when people don’t get what they want, they feel sad or disappointed. For example, if someone really wants a specific job but doesn’t get hired, they might feel like they missed out. However, when people get what they want, they might realize it’s not as perfect as they thought. Imagine someone dreams of buying a big house, but once they move in, they find out it’s too expensive to maintain and takes up all their free time. The first problem is the sadness of not achieving something you desire. The second problem is the realization that having what you wanted comes with its own set of difficulties. So, both situations can lead to feelings of unhappiness. This idea helps us understand that desires and goals can be tricky. It’s important to think carefully about what we want and to be prepared for the challenges that might come with achieving our dreams.
