"如果痛苦必须来临,愿它迅速到来。因为我有自己的生活要过,我需要以最好的方式过生活。如果他必须做出选择,愿他现在就做出选择。然后我将等待他或者忘记他。"
— Paulo Coelho
Simplified Meaning:
When something difficult or painful is going to happen, it's better for it to happen as soon as possible so it doesn't drag on and cause more stress. This way, you can deal with the pain, recover, and get back to living your life fully. For instance, if you're waiting for someone to decide whether they want to be with you or not, it's crucial they make their decision quickly. If they decide to stay, you can invest in the relationship. If they choose to leave, you can start moving on and finding your own happiness. It's about not letting uncertainty control your life and making sure you live in a way that brings you joy and fulfillment.
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