“Everyone can master a grief but he that has it.”
— William Shakespeare
Simplified Meaning:
When someone is feeling really sad or going through a hard time, it’s easy for others to offer advice or comfort. People often seem to know what the sad person should do to feel better. However, actually dealing with sadness yourself is much tougher than merely talking about it or giving suggestions. For instance, imagine a friend who has lost a loved one; friends might suggest ways to cope, like keeping busy or talking to others. But the friend who is grieving finds it much harder to follow this advice because the pain feels so intense and personal. It's like standing on the outside looking in; everything seems clearer than when you are in the middle of it. This helps us understand that we shouldn't judge others' struggles too quickly and instead offer patience and support.