"子供が退屈であればあるほど、親が子供を見せびらかすとき、良い親であることの称賛を受ける。その理由は、彼らの家に飼いならされた子供がいるからです。"
— Frank Zappa
Simplified Meaning:
When parents have a quiet and well-behaved child, they often get more praise from others. People think these parents are doing a great job because their child doesn't cause any trouble. However, a child who is too calm might just be acting this way to meet their parents' expectations, rather than being their true self. For example, if a kid sits still and doesn't talk much at a family gathering, others might say, "What a well-mannered child!" But this doesn't necessarily mean the child is happy or thriving. Parents should focus more on their child's genuine happiness and interests rather than just trying to impress others with their child's behavior. Instead of aiming for a picture-perfect image, they should encourage their child's unique personality and natural curiosity.
