"العذر أسوأ وأكثر فظاعة من الكذبة لأن العذر هو كذبة محروسة"
— Pope John Paul II
Simplified Meaning:
When you make an excuse, you're not just telling a lie, you're also trying to cover it up and make it seem reasonable. This can be more harmful than just lying because it adds an extra layer of dishonesty. Think about a student who didn't do their homework. If they say, "I forgot," that's a lie. But if they say, "The dog ate my homework," that's an excuse. They’re trying to hide the truth with a convincing story, making it look like it's not their fault. When you constantly make excuses, it can damage trust. People might stop believing you because it seems like you’re always trying to avoid responsibility. It's better to be honest and admit when you make a mistake. This way, people can respect your honesty and you can learn from your errors. For example, in a job, if you mess up a task and blame it on lack of time rather than admitting you didn't understand it, you miss the chance to get help and improve. Being straightforward helps you grow and keeps relationships strong.