"任何人都可以变得愤怒——这很容易,但是对正确的人感到愤怒,以正确的程度、在正确的时间、出于正确的目的,以及以正确的方式去愤怒——这并非人人都能做到,也不容易。"
— Aristotle
Simplified Meaning:
Getting angry is something everyone can do without much effort; it's a natural reaction. Imagine a child gets frustrated when their toy breaks—they easily feel anger. But handling that anger correctly is much more complicated. For example, if your friend forgets your birthday, it's common to feel hurt and angry. However, shouting at them or holding a grudge might not be the best way to deal with it. It's more effective to calmly explain how you feel and understand their side. This careful handling means you aim your anger at the right person, in the right amount, at a suitable time, and for a good reason, making sure it's expressed in a constructive way. Managing anger effectively requires thought, patience, and control, which is a skill not everyone naturally has. By practicing this, you can improve your relationships and handle conflicts better.