"Tout le monde peut se mettre en colère — c'est facile, mais se mettre en colère contre la bonne personne, au bon degré, au bon moment, pour la bonne raison, et de la bonne manière — cela n'est pas à la portée de tout le monde et n'est pas facile."
— Aristotle
Simplified Meaning:
Getting angry is something everyone can do without much effort; it's a natural reaction. Imagine a child gets frustrated when their toy breaks—they easily feel anger. But handling that anger correctly is much more complicated. For example, if your friend forgets your birthday, it's common to feel hurt and angry. However, shouting at them or holding a grudge might not be the best way to deal with it. It's more effective to calmly explain how you feel and understand their side. This careful handling means you aim your anger at the right person, in the right amount, at a suitable time, and for a good reason, making sure it's expressed in a constructive way. Managing anger effectively requires thought, patience, and control, which is a skill not everyone naturally has. By practicing this, you can improve your relationships and handle conflicts better.
