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Esther Perel, born in 1958 in Antwerp, Belgium, is a prominent psychotherapist and best-selling author. She is acclaimed for her books "Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence" (2006) and "The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity" (2017). Perel explores the complexities of modern relationships, blending her expertise in couples therapy with her multicultural background. more Esther Perel, born in 1958 in Antwerp, Belgium, is a prominent psychotherapist and best-selling author. She is acclaimed for her books "Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence" (2006) and "The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity" (2017). Perel explores the complexities of modern relationships, blending her expertise in couples therapy with her multicultural background. In 2016, she launched the popular podcast "Where Should We Begin?", giving listeners an intimate look into real-life therapy sessions. Her work has been translated into more than 25 languages, making her insights accessible globally. Perel holds degrees from the Hebrew University of Jerusalem and Lesley University, and she frequently speaks at conferences and workshops around the world. less

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"Erotic intimacy is about connection, not consumption."
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"Eroticism requires separateness; it is a space where you can be yourself without losing yourself."
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"Our work as partners is to stand witness to the struggles and successes of our loved ones."
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"The amount of erotic desire we feel has less to do with models of attractiveness and more to do with how willing we are to take risks."
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"Intimacy is not something you have; it's something you do."
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"Erotic aliveness requires active engagement and the courage to let go."
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"When we seek the gaze of another, it isn’t always our partner we are turning to—it’s the other in ourselves."
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"In desire, we experience a paradox: we seek the other in order to find ourselves."
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"To love is to have experienced the profound mutuality of others."
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"Desire is rooted in the unexpected and the unknown."
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"Today, we turn to one person to provide what an entire village once did: a sense of grounding, meaning, and continuity."
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"Many of us live in an economy of scarcity, where we believe there is not enough to go around and that it is our duty to struggle."
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"Love is at once an affirmation and a transcendence of who you are."
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"The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives."
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"For many, the weight of the past is not what was but rather what wasn’t."
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