"毎日こう自分に言い聞かせなさい。今日は干渉、恩知らず、無礼、不忠、悪意、利己主義に出会うであろう―それらはすべて、加害者たちが善とは何か、悪とは何かを知らないからである。"
— Marcus Aurelius
Simplified Meaning:
Every morning, remind yourself that you might face rude behavior, ungrateful people, and others who are disloyal or selfish. These negative actions happen because the people doing them don't understand the difference between right and wrong. For example, if a coworker is disrespectful or someone cuts you off in traffic, it's not necessarily that they are bad people; they just might not have the wisdom or knowledge to act better. By expecting these behaviors and understanding their root cause, you can prepare yourself not to react angrily or get upset. Instead, stay calm and don't take it personally. This approach helps you manage your emotions better and maintain your peace of mind throughout the day.
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